Inspiring links (from Spirituality to Art of Living)

Discovering-Practical-Spirituality-Photo-of-Man-Thinking-Against-a-Marvelous-Sunset

(Every week, I  publish a series of inspiring links. Enjoy this week’s round up on spirituality!)

Secret of life is how to balance discipline with compassion. The Chess Game

Our shastras have described this entire creation as a play and display of one consciousness, one energy that manifests itself in infinite forms while being essentially formless. The symphony of creation

My 7 P’s of happiness

Give me more. Spirituality is not anti-money, anti-fame or anti-power. If we use it for the good and for others, we will be blessed with more and more.

Hopelessness is freedom. Hopelessness is Peace. Hopelessness is joy. Hope less.

You are original. You are rare. You are unique. You are a wonder. You are a masterpiece.

Love and blessings,

Shaloo

Taking a plunge

reading-tarot-cards

I have been doing tarot readings for a while now. Apart from family and friends, I have been doing readings at Free Tarot Reading Network at American Tarot Association. Turning professional seemed the next logical step but I had been procrastinating it as I already have a full time job and my volunteer work with Art of Living to keep me busy.

Each year seems to pass more quickly and 2013 is no exception.I wanted to read for others, and feel that the time it takes it worth the money I charge.  So I thought to myself why I should keep postponing wanting to do something I love. Why not take a tiny step in the direction of my dreams?

This simple question allowed me to start a new blog Tarotsights where I would offer tarot readings for a small fee. I contemplated having a website but realised a free blog would work just as well.

I am offering email readings for now. I feel that the written reading is valuable, because of its detail, and its permanent record. The client can keep the reading to look at again and again, without having to rely on the vagaries of memory.

If your life or business is heading in a new direction, be open. Don’t allow complacency or laziness or fear to hold you back. Take a step and be ready to embrace something you didn’t expect.

Follow your intuition. If you feel you’re ready, take the leap. You’ll never know if it’s the right path, unless you give it a shot. No one ever succeeded without trying, without taking that first step.

 

Inspiring links (from simplicity to inspiration)

inspiration

(Every week, I  publish a series of inspiring links. Enjoy this week’s round up on simplicity & inspiration!)

Who to emulate? Instead of emulating someone because of their accomplishments, it seems more prudent to emulate them for who they are.

The worst lies are the ones you tell yourself over and over again- the ones you live by. 9 lies to unlearn before it’s too late.

10 lessons of less for high school graduates

Through Frankie’s eyes

Average is what everybody else does. Are you choosing to be average?

The blind man and the Everest

Our days fill up so fast, and are so rushed and filled with distractions, that they seem to be bursting. 9 rules for a simpler day

Love and blessings,

Shaloo

Discover the Infinite: Kena Upanishad

Spiritual-Discourses-img

Last couple of days; I have been listening to a series of talks by my Master H.H.Sri Sri Ravishankar on Kena Upnishad. “Kena” means- `What’.

The Kena Upanishad or the Kenopanishad is one of the earlier Upanishads, a genre of Hindu Scriptures. These are treasured teachings on life passed from master to disciple, so profound that even several millennia later they still capture the essence of life.

In this series of talks, Sri Sri explains beautifully explains about the very source of life, reveals the secrets of this creation, prana (life force), life and answers all the questions that have piqued the seekers since time immemorial.

During the discourses, Sri Sri tells the story of the divine play of the Supreme God (Brahman):

It is because of divine grace that the gods were successful in defeating and subduing the demons. The real victors were not gods but the divine cosmic energy. But the gods felt proud of their achievements and started to feel that they were invincible. When the supreme soul realized this he assumed the form of a ‘Yaksha’ so as to teach the gods a lesson for if he didn’t the gods would remain proud and end up in misery and ruin. Brahman appeared before them the form of Yaksha but they did not recognize the Absolute. One by one, Agni the God of fire and Vayu the God of air, came to challenge this new appearance and tried to show off their powers. The God of Fire could not burn even the straw placed before him. The God of air could not blow even the straw placed before him. Finally Indra, the God of all the divines came nearest to that spirit to find out who it is that is presenting these challenges to the divines. And before him stood a highly adorned woman in the name and form of Uma who finally reveals to Indra that the Spirit is the Absolute Brahman.

Such deep knowledge can ‘t be understood easily and has to be read and listened again and again so that you get to the core of the deeper meanings and also so that the knowledge gets established in you.

Here are the notes I made while I was watching the series of discourses:

  • We doubt that if we are being loved. Self-doubt is the biggest doubt.
  • Drop the hatred. Hatred is killing you, forget about the other. Utter foolishness is cultivating hatred within yourself. Let us not hate anybody.
  • If your mind is boiling with hatred, then external peace means nothing. Internal peace has to be there.
  • If you sit to learn something with ‘No mind’, you are not going to learn anything. Learning happens with ‘Yes mind’.
  • Every cell of your body is made up of God. When your prana is strong/high, you are able to recognize the infinite in the finite.
  • Let the student not reject the knowledge and let the knowledge not reject the student. Let there be no rejection, only acceptance.
  • You are beautiful! Come on, wake up. This is the satvic way of uplifting someone.
  • Let the virtues/dharma get deeply ingrained in me.
  • Upnishad always encourages the quest. Kena means question. Keno Upnishad itself means what when who where why.
  • The moments of wonder, the moments of inquiry, the moments of curiosity, the moments of astonishment are very precious. These moments are what takes us from the known to the unknown.
  • What when why- the questions are propelling us to knowledge.
  • When you are peaceful, then the spirit of inquiry can happen. The basis is peace.
  • The biggest challenge In front of mankind is that they don’t look within. They keep looking outside.
  • The consciousness which is going outward is mind (manah)  and the consciousness which turns inward is namah.
  • This whole world is called Maya. Maya means that which can be measured. All the five senses can be measured.
  • Truth is that which is unaffected by time and space.
  • Yesterday’s reality is false today & today’s reality never existed yesterday.
  • Truth, knowledge, infinity is ‘Brahman’.
  • Whatever the Brahman has created is always beautiful and has a purpose.
  • Metabolism of the body is twice when you are breathing through the right nostril.
  • Observe the prana and that which is beyond prana. God is not scenery, it is the seer. Don’t ever objectify God.
  • Statues are not God. But for celebration sake or for the sake of connection, you can worship God in any form.
  • First step is to become aware of the senses. Only when you are aware of the senses, your intellect is alive.
  • Identity aspect of consciousness is Ego.
  • Intellect, experience, memory, identity are the four aspects of consciousness.
  • The world is made up of 5 elements. That’s why it is also called prapancha.
  • The inward journey is from the sense objects to the senses.
  • The universe is filled with memories but we only identify with certain memories and that’s what separates us from universal consciousness.
  • In the spiritual path, illusions come. This is called Yogmaya.
  • One who knows doesn’t know it and one who doesn’t know also knows it.
  • ‘Patrata’- Your capability to receive knowledge has to be there. Let us expand our capabilities.
  • Even if you think you don’t know, you can’t be away from it. A conscious mind may not know it but the subconscious mind knows it.
  • ‘Sahdyojata’- created every moment anew and knowing every moment new.
  • Self efforts &  Grace of the Master- these two things together bring knowledge and knowledge brings immortality.
  • This you have to know it here now. This truth you have to know now in this life. If you don’t, then there is not a greater loss than this.
  • The brave one sees that one consciousness present everywhere. He crosses over this world of death to immortality.
  • In ignorance, you project your emotions on others. And seeing the whole world as a projection of consciousness is enlightment.
  • There are two levels of truth- adhyatam & vayavhar (spiritual and practical aspect).
  • Upanishads say everything is full. Buddha says everything is empty. That was the knowledge needed at that time.
  • Bravery is when you are able to see the infinite in the finite, perfection in the most imperfect ones, see the diverse universe as a play and display of a single consciousness.
  • The whole universe is permeated by spirit but in different degrees.
  • Stones have one unit of life, water 2 units of life, fire 3 units of life, air 4 units of life, space 5 units, trees 6 units, animals 7 units, humans 8 units and the genius ones are blossomed in 9 units of life.
  • Humans can develop further from 9-16 units of life. When we die, we go between 9-10 units of life.
  • Ancestors<Pitras<Kinnars<Gandharvas<Yakshas<Devas<Siddhas
  • Siddha is the perfected human being who has gone deep into meditation. Any talent you have is a gift, a blessing.
  • Devas are not totally free from desires.
  • In heaven, there is plenty of joys & pleasures but no love. Devas have to come to Earth to experience love and be liberated.
  • In the victory of the Brahman is the victory of everything.
  • ‘Upasana’- Sitting close. Upasana is worship. It can give you many things…everything.
  • Upasana means getting close to the universal consciousness, the simplest form of our own consciousness.
  • We can never be outside divinity. We are in it.
  • Shiva is the fourth state of consciousness.
  • Coastline has more prana & daivi energy is in the ocean. So Western people are fascinated towards ocean. While in India, the inland is infused with energy due to chanting of mantras. Also the places of worship have very high prana. So in India, people are not that fascinated towards oceans.
  • Every creature will fall in love with the one who has connected with his true nature ‘Brahman.’
  • After listening to the Upanishad, you have to dwell on it and make it your own. This is the home of truth. You need to lead your life with this awareness and forbearance.
  • A glimpse of the infinity gives you enormous inner strength. A glimpse of Brahman makes you a beautiful person from inside.
  • One who knows this is free from all sins. Experiencing the infinity, he is free of all the sins and he gets established in this wisdom effortlessly.
  • The single motivating factor of this planet is happiness.
  • Dhara means flowing outward. Radha is the mind which is going inward, going back to it source.
  • Grace is inside you.
  • When intellect makes choices, it is free will.
  • Enlightenment is from being somebody to nobody to everybody.

So complicated knowledge yet so simple!

Blessed ones are those who get to hear it and even more blessed are those who live this knowledge.

Minimalist relationships

broken-friendship

The goal of minimalism is to simplify our lives by getting rid of the unnecessary. All but the essential.

Minimalism makes us question the things in our life. If there is something we don’t need in our life, we eliminate it. As simple as that!

Whatever is unnecessary just clutters our life and gets in the way of happiness. By cutting down the unnecessary, we make space for the necessary and bring back the sense of peace and calm in our life.

I don’t consider myself a minimalist but I find the concept fascinating. I have been applying the principles of minimalism in my life by slowly decluttering my house and by trying to curb my spending habits.

Till now, I have been thinking of minimalism only in terms of possessions and money. But minimalism can be applied to all areas of life.

Last couple of weeks, I have been going through some tough times and these are the times when you come to know who your true friends are. This made me think if I really need to keep all those so-called friends in my life.

Why can’t I apply principles of minimalism to friends & relationships?

It’s but natural to develop connections with coworkers or batchmates or people who are always there – even when they don’t add any value to our life and are more of a liability.

I have my share of fair-weather friends too. A friend who only calls in a couple of months only when he’s facing some problem and needs a shoulder to cry on, another friend who will call me to hangout only when nobody else is available, a coworker who is sweet only on the face so that I give good reviews on her performance report and a few more.

It’s not that we don’t recognize such shitty relationships but we still hang on to them for various reasons. Sometimes for the sake of convenience, sometimes because we are not ready to let go and sometimes because we are too polite to tell them that they don’t deserve us.

But such relationships are dangerous. They take away our peace of mind. They grow the seeds of restlessness and bitterness in us. We expect fulfillment from the relationships which can cause us only pain & regret.

So now I have decided to eliminate all the unnecessary people from my life. If there is anything that can be done to fix the relationships then I am willing to take the chance. And if not, then I am ready to move on.

It’s difficult to grow apart from people whom you considered as friends but if someone’s just draining you and adding negativity in your life then it’s ok to let go.

Let go of all the relationships where you feel stuck and make room for the new. There are so many wonderful people out there to add meaning & value to your life, to support you, to uplift you, to appreciate your love & care.

Relationships that allow us to have fun, be happy & contribute in each other’s growth- these are the meaningful relationships we need. Nothing less, nothing more!

Inspiring links (from stress-relief to self-improvement)

Your New Self Green Road Sign Over Dramatic Clouds and Sky.

(Every week, I  publish a series of inspiring links. Enjoy this week’s round up on stress-relief & self-improvement!)

10 self-improvement apps to make you smarter,stronger and happier

For fast-acting stress relief, slow down and consider doing the  9 things happy people do to stress less.

A guide to becoming happy with life & who you are, while getting things done:   The Little Book of Contentment Zen Habits by Leo Babauta.

Instead of trying to get things done,we can make life more beautiful via subtraction.  A well-edited life focuses on less when everyone else is looking for more.

Don’t forget the past. Learn from it the countless life-giving lessons it has to offer.

Do something important today.

Love and blessings,

Shaloo

25 thoughts that lead to happiness

responsible for my own happiness

“You are the one who calls the law of attraction into action, and you do it through your thoughts. ” ~ Rhonda Byrne, The Secret

Some people seem to be happy no matter what happens in their lives. Some people are always content and peaceful though they may not have the stuff which we consider as luxuries.

It may be hard to believe, but happiness is only a thought away.

The law of attraction is the name given to the belief that “like attracts like” and that by focusing on positive or negative thoughts, one can bring about positive or negative results. Our thoughts can change the way we look at life and can lead us to happiness because we can’t control our circumstances but we can control our perception towards them.

Meditation and gratitude lead us to positive thoughts and with positive thoughts, come profound changes in our life. Wouldn’t it be better to think about thoughts that lead to peace, contentment and happiness rather than filling our minds with bitterness, resentment, frustration and anger?

Here are 25 thoughts that serve as my roadmap to happiness:

  1. Count your blessings.
  2. Expectations reduce joy.
  3. Accept people and situations as they are.
  4. Let go.
  5. Judge less, accept more.
  6. The best is yet to come.
  7. Kindness, like a boomerang always returns.
  8. Focus on abundance instead of lack.
  9. Love is not an emotion. It’s our very existence.
  10. We are spiritual beings having a human experience.
  11. Great minds discuss ideas; Average minds discuss events; Small minds discuss people.
  12. Potential unused turns to pain.
  13. The purpose of life is a life with purpose.
  14. Happiness is in the heart, not in the circumstances.
  15. Behind me is infinite power, before me is endless possibility , around me is boundless opportunity.
  16. Grudges are a waste of perfect happiness.
  17. Laugh when you can, apologize when you should and let go of what you can’t change.
  18. The disturbers of happiness are our desires, our griefs and our fears.
  19. To be beautiful means to be yourself.
  20. Smile. It makes a difference.
  21. Life is a series of miracles.
  22. Never trouble trouble until trouble troubles you.
  23. Focus beyond the self.
  24. Serve,meditate,celebrate.
  25. Be happy. This is an order as well as a blessing ~ H.H. Sri Sri Ravi Shankar

I would love to hear how you bring happiness into your life. Please share your thoughts in the comments section .